The problem

[SandytheDJ]

I met this girl online in the dating category, but she wanted to have sex right away.
Being a guy, naturally I wanted to and did have sex with her the first night.
It messed me up because she ended it a few days later when I texted her, said
she had a boyfriend and the relationship was working out again, blah blah blah.

I didn't text her too much, she kept telling me how much she liked me when we were together,
what did I do wrong?

- Sandy

[AW Bowman]

This kind of problem is best handled with one to one counseling with a seasoned pastor/counselor. I would suggest that there is more to the problem than just being attracted to a woman.

While there are a number of ministers here that might offer some suggestions and even guidance, this forum is really not the venue for such discussions. If anyone desires to carry this discussion further, please do it off-live via a PM or email. Meanwhile, I urge you to seek out someone in your locale that you could confide in.

[AW Bowman]

And, I apologize for not first offering you a warm welcome to the community.

Truly, you are welcome here and I pray that your studies with us will be fruitful.